No, you would not be out of line to ask if you can have the pergo flooring installed as long as you are willing to pay for it (labor & materials). Please note, however, that once installed, it is considered a “fixture” and you cannot remove it once you vacate the premises.

If this is something that you are willing to do and you don’t think your kids will damage it (because if they do, the landlord might think twice about having it changed if he is responsible for fixing the damage).

If you are offering to pay to replace the carpet with Pergo yourself, it seems worth a try to ask. If it is a privately owned, smaller building, your landlord is more likely to agree, as it is essentially a free improvement for them. They will probably want to approve the material and installer, but that’s OK.
If you have a larger property or it is managed or owned by a large management company, they will probably not allow it, as there is no real benefit to having one unit with a slight upgrade compared to another.
I have always allowed my tenants (in my personal properties) to make improvements if I approve, and over the years have gotten an expanded deck, granite counter tops and a wood privacy fence added to my property without having to pay for it. I have always viewed it as a win-win situation.

Cheapest carpet?? God does everyone have that poor of opinion of landlords??

One reason for carpet is the noise reduction. Only the worst owner would use cheapest carpet; You can ask the manager, but rest assured that he will say no, in most cases.

Having food in the carpet is not taking good care of it. I also have two boys, and their carpet has had a bit of wear, but that is over the last 10 years. We as a family do not wear outside shoes inside on the flooring. They are removed upon entry, and not one of our friends or Kids friends have refused this custom.

I always equate “Active” as being uncontrolled. You have to remember that you are in someone else’s house.

I am sure your landlord got the cheapest possible carpet and that is one reason it is showing wear so fast. Ask him if he would mind if you replaced the carpet at your cost………all he can do is say yes or no……..he may require you to reinstall the carpet before you move out…..or keep your deposit…..